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7 love signs that prove you have `fallen in love` with someone
Witnessing with your own eyes the relationship that you have built for so long collapses, is there anyone who is not sad, not in pain, not disappointed, not angry?
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Psychologist, Dr. Mark Sharp once shared 4 main reasons why men rarely frankly tell the truth when breaking up with their lover.
1. “The problem is not with you but with me”
This excuse may be said to reduce the girl’s pain, but in fact it is to make the man feel less guilty.
According to the president of consulting firm Mannersmith Etiquette, Jodi Smith, the real meaning here is: `You are different from me, not really compatible with me.`
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2. “We have different orientations in life”
Ashley Marie, an analyst, looking for solutions for relationships, affirmed that for people who have been together for a long time, maybe up to several years, these words are meaningless.
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3. “You are too mature for me”
This is also a statement that shows selfishness and childishness.
4. “I don’t want you to get hurt”
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This is the most paradoxical farewell sentence often seen by men and women.
5. “I’m going away in a few years.
This is a very obvious excuse, helping to cover up the fact that he is no longer interested in being with you for a long time.
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6. “I can’t go on anymore”
Have you ever caught your man flirting, dating or having sex with another girl?
7. “I still haven’t completely forgotten my ex, and this is unfair to you.”
The truth behind is `I don’t like you enough`.
8. “I thought I was ready for a relationship, but…”
This means he jumped into a relationship with you but without any responsibilities or commitments to you.
9. “You are very good, and I only make my life worse”
This is also a way for a man to feel less guilty and you can’t blame him too much.
10. “Let’s break up for a while”
This doesn’t mean he wants out of your relationship.
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Whether it’s an excuse or the truth, that person already wants to break up.
The best advice from love consultants is to stay calm, just agree happily, gracefully, seductively, and don’t forget to thank the man for telling the truth, even though the truth may be.
